We’ve been in TN for one year now. A lot has happened, for the most part good.
I looked back at my photos from a year ago, and saw our first glimpse of spring flowers blooming, and snow mixed with white petals all over the ground. The house has undergone many repairs and improvements since then, of course. We’ve had to spend more than we anticipated in some cases, but we’re on track and catching up. We’ve encountered some extreme ignorance and prejudice, but also met some good people who are working hard to make TN a more progressive place, in the face of all the odds.
Most importantly, I’ve had the privilege of hanging out with my son, my main reason for moving here in the first place. The grandkids are too far away for us to visit, but I get to see them when they visit my son a few times a year. I’m learning to seize opportunities and memories in the present moment, while they’re around to be had. I feel very fortunate and thankful for each and every chance I get to spend with my son, however belated.
And I’ve had a year to start working on improving the garden. Today I finally got the rest of my native wildflower seeds into cold or hot stratification, to pretreat them for germination. It will be a long ongoing process, but I’m learning a lot about the life cycles of native plants and heirlooms. Like everything else in life, you have to focus on each step in the present, not the vast uncertainty of the future.

Last but not least, we officially added Misu the Cat to our extended family. She makes the house feel much more like a home. And she definitely earns her keep, mousing and birding each day. She lives to eat. “Feed me, dammit!”

